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My Son Taught Me About Privilege Yesterday

This was my boy yesterday morning when he ran his first 5K.  He is 8 years old and probably only weighs 40 pounds.  That’s 40 pounds of muscle with a few bones stuck in.  God made him an athlete, and he made him fast.

Josiah won second place in his age category, with a time of almost exactly 23 minutes.  

Josiah’s real love is soccer, but he has been training in track this school term.  However, he had never run such a long distance before, so we weren’t really sure what to expect.  Just have fun, we told him.  Let’s see what you can do.  

I was so proud of him, and even got a little teary when he roared across the finish line.  But because of the different start times, I didn’t really realize how well he had done until we went online to see the stats last night.  

There were 84 participants.  Only two were younger than Josiah.  He placed sixth out of 84 people.

Then I started thinking about all these top runners.  James?  Also adopted from Tanzania.  Alidi, Moses, and Rashid?  All boys from a slum across the road from HOPAC.  A group of men from the HOPAC community have been deeply investing in these three boys (and others) for years now, training them in both sports and the gospel.

I thought about James and Josiah and what their lives would be like right now if they had not been plucked out of that orphanage (both boys from the same one!).  I thought about Alidi, Moses, and Rashid, and how the annual 5K has become such a bright spot in a life of poverty.   

And then I thought about the millions of others like them, all across Tanzania and the world, who will never get this chance.  Even Alidi, whose favorite day of the year is probably the 5K, has to content himself with running at a small community race, instead of an all-state event in front of college recruiters.  

How many other young boys and girls are out there, DNA brimming with Olympic athleticism, or Ivy-League intelligence, or musical genius?  Yet they’ll never have a real soccer ball, or a classroom with less than 100 students in it, or a piano to practice.  

And it hit me that one of the (many) privileges of being wealthy is the ability to see my children find their potential.  And have a shot at reaching it.  

It makes me wonder how many millions of those in poverty are ignored, oppressed, or spat upon, when all they really need is a chance.  Or how often I have taken advantage of my wealth and opportunity and forgotten what a what a huge privilege my life really is.

I’ve resolved not to forget.  Or waste it.   

My Favorite Kids, August ’till December

The emphasis around here lately has been on Johnny….but here’s a look into my other sweethearts’ lives.  

First Day of School
My first grader is lucky enough to have her brother’s teacher from last year
Josiah’s 2nd grade teacher
Grace’s 4th Grade Teacher (and soccer coach!)
Pamoja Week (like Spirit Week)  Photo credit:  Rebecca Laarman
Math Detectives for Math Week.  We actually bought the hats from someone who was selling them on the side of the road.  Because, apparently, these are the kind of hats Math Detectives wear.  Now you know.

Grace is emerging as a fantastic soccer player….thanks her to hard work and her Daddy’s instruction.

First grade assembly…Lily was the “prop girl” holding the water…she took the job very seriously.
Post-assembly love.
4th Grade Assembly

Josiah is Eight

It’s been 8 years since this quirky little guy was born.  In 8 more years he will be sixteen.  Whaaaat????

He could kick since he could walk.  Recently, a mom of four boys said to me, “My boys say that Josiah by himself could beat all of them in football combined.”

That’s my boy.  He is the smallest in his class, but he is the fastest.  Last week, when school was cancelled because of the election, he said, “I’m sad there’s no school….because I wanted to play football.”  He plays three times a day–at least.  

So, of course, he had a football birthday party (of course).  Gil, who is the party-planner extraordinaire, planned a multitude of football activities for the boys.  Cost nothing and was the best party ever (as confirmed by various 8-year-olds).

Aw, my sweet boy.  You are all energy and bravado, but you still love to climb in my lap.  This Mommy is still so smitten by you.

Now We Are Six

“Tiger”

Totally need to submit this to Awkward Family Photos

Just keepin’ it real.
Candy in mouth; tears gone.  Mostly.
What DID you get yourself into?

Term 3: Pretty Much All About Sports

These are a few of my favorite things:  First grade boys with no teeth

The fire truck visits kindergarten

Farmer Lily in her kindergarten assembly

Josiah on Sports Day….God made him fast!

This one’s fast too!  Won all her races that day.

And Lily….just had fun.  

The night before the races, I asked her, “What’s more important than winning, Lily?”

She said, “Letting other people win?”

Grade 3 Assembly

U9 Girls’ Soccer…and their fantastic coach!

Grace ran her first 5K…at age 9!  Josiah and Lily ran the 1K…and my little speedy, 40 pound 7-year-old boy took everyone down!  

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