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Worth Your Time (Summer 2026)

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Happy summer to my readers! Below is a list of articles, books, movies, and videos that I’ve been collecting over the past several months. Let me know what you enjoy and any recommendations you have for me too.

Articles: 

The Unexpected Parenting Comfort of Ecclesiastes by Jen Wilkin 

This one spoke directly to the depths of my weary parenting soul: 

“We want to protect children from temptation and negative influence, but the task feels insurmountable. We can feel powerless, asked to sail through uncharted waters with monsters left and right. But in the middle of my parenting fears, the Lord brought to mind timeless help to serve as a compass: He reminded me about what does not change.

Did my children face unprecedented challenges with technology and social pressures? In one sense, yes. But on closer observation, these were old challenges with new wrappings. The Book of Ecclesiastes goes to great lengths to drive home the point that there is nothing new under the sun.”

America is Closing Its Elementary Schools, and No One Wants to Say Why by Anthony Bradley

I often wonder if we should be paying more attention to population decline (which is happening almost everywhere in the world except Africa) and what that will mean for the future of governments, missions, and the Church.

“Schools are closing in low-income urban districts where private school is not a realistic option for most families, in rural counties where no private alternative exists within driving distance, and in communities across the economic spectrum where the conversation about homeschooling has never meaningfully taken root. The closures are everywhere because the cause is everywhere.

The cause is a birth rate that has been declining since 2007, long before homeschooling became a culturally visible phenomenon. The United States fertility rate now sits at approximately 1.6 births per woman, well below the 2.1 replacement level required to maintain a stable population. Fewer births in 2007 meant fewer kindergarteners in 2012; fewer births in 2015 mean fewer third-graders today.”

Are Christian Artists Free to Ignore the Fall? by Ryan Currie

I’ve always been interested in Thomas Kinkade since I grew up near his hometown (my mom taught one of his kids) and watched in real time his spectacular rise to fame and equally devastating fall. I liked this article because it helped me to put words to why certain “Christian” books and movies leave me so dissatisfied. 

“But a Christian artist’s body of work should include depictions of both light and darkness—ultimately pointing beyond itself to the transcendent fullness of goodness, truth, and beauty. Thomas Kinkade’s life reminds us that art cannot save us. We cannot paint away the fall and the troubles in our lives. But we can look for (and create) art that points to the redemptive pattern of beauty.”

Is Christian Publishing Bad For the Church? by Tabitha McDuffee 

Since I’m in the process of publishing a book, this was a helpful and important series to read. “Once Christian publishers hitched their wagons to Facebook and Amazon, they were stuck. Wherever Facebook went, they had to go, too. So, as algorithms developed and existing social media platforms changed and new social media platforms emerged, publishers and authors were tossed about by the shifting winds.”

YouTube: 

Mark Wiens at Migrationology. We’ve known Mark’s family since he was in high school, when he was growing up as a ReachGlobal Africa MK. He’s now a popular travel food blogger, and we love his channel! He’s always so positive, fun, and informative, and I can give Johnny free rein to watch any of his videos.

Christus Victor by Getty Music. My current favorite Getty song on repeat. 

Black + Evangelical  This excellent documentary is one that I wish every white evangelical American would prioritize watching. Listening to other perspectives (especially those grounded in Scripture) is so valuable. 

Books:

Don’t Let’s Go to the Dogs Tonight: An African Childhood by Alexandra Fuller

This is a compelling memoir of a white girl who grew up in several African countries in what was essentially a colonialist family. I found the underlying historical narrative especially interesting, but also appreciated how Fuller examined the tension she experienced in her genuine love for Africa and Africans while growing up in a racist world. 

You Have a Calling: Finding Your Vocation in the True, Good, and Beautiful by Karen Swallow Prior

I read this book while writing my own and resonated with so much of it. “Every Christian is called to “full-time ministry,” regardless of who signs the paycheck (or even whether there is a paycheck).” I’ve written a whole chapter on this. Stay tuned. But meanwhile, read this one. 

The Air We Breathe: How We All Came to Believe in Freedom, Kindness, Progress, and Equality by Glen Scrivener

This is a truly fantastic book, and I recommend it to anyone–Christian or not–who wants a better understanding of ourselves and our culture. Here’s the premise: “If you’re a Westerner—whether you’ve stepped foot inside a church or not, whether you’ve clapped eyes on a Bible or not, whether you consider yourself an atheist, pagan or Jedi Knight—you are a goldfish, and Christianity is the water in which you swim.” I plan to write a post about this book–so more to come.

Nourished: Third Culture Kids and the Village They Need by Anna Danforth

If you are raising kids outside of your home culture, you need this book. It’s an incredible resource, meticulously researched, practical, and full of hope. 

Could This Be Home? by Brenda Metro

Along the same theme of third culture kids, my friend Brenda has written a wonderful book for kids who are transitioning to a new place. For any family heading towards a big move, you need this story for your kids. 

The Lemon Tree: An Arab, a Jew, and the Heart of the Middle East by Sandy Tolan

This is a true story about one house, two families, and that tiny piece of land in the Middle East that can’t seem to ever find peace. If you want to understand both sides of the story behind the Israeli/Palestinian conflict, you will deeply appreciate this book.

The Time of the Child by Niall Williams 

I’ve recently read several “Christian” novels which I can’t recommend here because they just felt trite, preachy, and shallow (see the Thomas Kinkade article above). In contrast, this novel felt incredibly Christian, even though I’m not sure the author shares my beliefs. This story has rich themes of a father agonizing over how to show love to his adult daughter, the otherworldly love we can experience for a baby (even one not our own), and most importantly, how vulnerability is what builds connection and community. I loved this story. 

This is not a fast read. It is slow and contemplative, but the writing is gorgeous. I often highlight beautiful sentences in books since I can only hope that someday I can create the same kind of art. In this book, I had to stop highlighting because there were so many beautiful sentences.

Movies:

Buy Now! The Shopping Conspiracy on Netflix: If you’ve read my writing for any length of time, you know I am continually burdened by American consumerism. As Christians, we must be aware of this and push back against it when we can. 

The Wild Robot: I never would have guessed that I would wildly sob through an animated movie about a robot and a baby goose, but here we are. As an adoptive mom who is launching children into the world, I have never felt more seen. 

Quotes:

“For I have accepted God’s idea of me, and my whole life is an offering back to Him of all that I am and all that He wants me to be.” – Elisabeth Elliot

Worth Your Time (2025)

Hi everyone! Sorry it’s been pretty quiet around here. All my writing time and energy are pouring into my book! I’ve written seven out of ten chapters with three more to go. My goal is to finish the first draft by April, which means that you may get to see the finished product this time next year.

Before 2025 gets too far behind us, I want to share the recommendations I’ve been collecting…and neglecting to pass on to you. Enjoy!

Articles:

No Chance of Survival: How a Deadly Plane Crash Yielded a Growing Spiritual Harvest by Sarah Eekhoff Zylstra

This is one of those stories that will make you cry and rejoice and wonder at the mysterious, hard, beautiful ways of God. 

AI Makes Me Doubt Everything by Tim Challies

“What I am finding is that the existence, the growing prevalence, and the invisibility of AI have begun to seed a kind of epistemic doubt in my mind. When I watch videos I wonder if they are real or fabricated. When I see a photograph I wonder if it is authentic or generated, untouched or manipulated. When I read an article on the internet I wonder whether it was written by a human being or a machine. I don’t know what’s true anymore. I struggle to know what’s real.”

In Adoption, Only Jesus is the Hero by Jen Oshman

“The hard truth is that our love is not enough. Our love, no matter how fierce, will not heal their wounds. And our parenting, no matter how biblical, will not rescue them. Our best-informed, best-educated, best-supported efforts will always fall short. You and I cannot meet our children’s deepest needs, whether they are adopted or not. Our kids need Jesus. And not only do they need Jesus, but we need Jesus. Adoptive momma, we need the gospel. On this journey, we must remember who we are and who we are not. Only Jesus is a hero. Only Jesus is a rescuer. Only Jesus can save lives and redeem people.”

Movies/Shows:

Testament

Gil and I absolutely loved this re-imagining of the book of Acts. It is incredibly creative, deeply moving, and sent us back to our Bibles to ask, “Wait, is that how it really happened?” (And it did!) I highly, highly recommend it. We hope there is more coming!

Between Borders

This movie tells the true story of a family forced to flee their country during the Armenian genocide. Since refugees seem to be frequently vilified these days, it’s good to remind ourselves of why they come and why we want them here. 

Masaka Kids

If you’ve ever seen clips on social media of adorable African street kids dancing their hearts out, it was probably the Masaka kids. This documentary tells their story. 

Books:

The Storied Life: Christian Writing as Art and Worship by Jared Wilson

“To write is to wage war on multiple fronts. The insecurity battle is just one of many.” As I fight my way through writing my book (many times feeling like I am literally forcing myself to put words on a page and wondering why I ever thought I could do this), Wilson’s book was encouraging, affirming, practical, and helpful. Any Christian writer will benefit from it. 

Exile: The Church in the Shadow of Empire by Preston Sprinkle

How should Christians view politics and government? I know Preston Sprinkle is controversial among Christians, and I don’t claim to agree with him on everything. I read this book as research for the book I’m writing, and I found it interesting and compelling. I still need to do more studying on this subject, but Sprinkle has some really good points that every Christian needs to consider. 

Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver

There’s a reason why this book won the Pulitzer Prize: it’s absolutely brilliant. Barbara Kingsolver is the kind of writer I can only dream about becoming one day. That said, this is a devastating story. It took me a long time to get through it because it is so dark. Consider yourself warned: this story is full of profanity, drugs, abuse, violence, and sex. The fact that one little boy is at the center of all of it just makes it worse. Yet I can’t help but recommend it because of its power. It’s not a true story, but it’s a realistic depiction of life in Appalachia in the nineties. I couldn’t believe the events of this story could be historical, so I did my own research and discovered that, yes, the story is an accurate representation. Kingsolver wrote this book as a modern-day version of David Copperfield, and just as Dickens did, she succeeded in bringing to light the harsh realities of poverty and the exploitation that causes it. 

The Hats We Wear: Reflections on Life as a Woman of Faith by Elizabeth Trotter

Elizabeth Trotter is the editor of A Life Overseas and one of my favorite writers. What a gift this book is to women! Elizabeth isn’t afraid to crack herself open and let us see the most vulnerable and difficult parts of her story so that we can learn and be encouraged by what God has taught her. 

The Evangelical Imagination: How Stories, Images, and Metaphors Created a Culture in Crisis by Karen Swallow Prior

Why do we believe what we believe? Hopefully, for Christians, the Bible defines this, but we don’t often see the places where culture has deeply integrated into our beliefs. If you are interested in worldview, art, literature, and how stories and images influence us in ways we don’t realize, you’ll love this book. 

Practicing the King’s Economy: Honoring Jesus in How We Work, Earn, Spend, Save, and Give by Michael Rhodes, Robby Holt, and Brian Fikkert

This is another book I read as research for my own writing, and I loved it! This was written by guys from the Chalmers Institute (think When Helping Hurts). If you are someone interested in poverty alleviation, a business owner who wants to do more for the community, or any Christian with a passion to get outside American consumerism into a more biblical way of seeing life, this book is for you. It is super practical and inspiring. 

Worth your time

Worth Your Time (May 2025)

Hello blog friends!

Here is my sporadic list of book, article, and movie recommendations that are worth your time.

Books:

Leveling Up: Adoptive Parents and Adult Adoptees: Taking Your Relationship to the Next Level by Dr. Christina Reese and Elaine Shenk

This book is a gift to adoptive parents. Certainly, launching children into the adult world isn’t easy on any parent, but adoption brings unique challenges to this stage of life. Leveling Up is written by two adoptive moms (whose children gave their blessing to the book) and is full of practical advice and personal stories. Strengthening your relationship with your kids is the top priority, and because of that, this book is full of hope. It was a wonderful encouragement to me. 

The Eyes and the Impossible by Dave Eggers 

This delightful book for kids is entertaining and thought-provoking for adults too! It’s an animal story, but these animals are quite philosophical, and Eggers is brilliantly talented in giving them a voice. Few books have made me literally laugh out loud…but this one did. I read it myself and am now reading it to Johnny, who is thirteen. Great for all ages – note it does have an interesting spiritual component that could provoke some good discussions with older kids. 

The Ideal Team Player: How to Recognize and Cultivate the Three Essential Virtues by Patrick Lencioni

 I read this one with my work team, since our job is to bring new missionaries into ReachGlobal. Lencioni identified three virtues–humble, hungry, and smart–that every great team member must possess. His insight is super valuable, but I especially enjoyed that he wrote this book as a novel, making it a quick and engaging read. 

Re-Making the World: How 1776 Created the Post-Christian West by Andrew Wilson

Whoa–this was fascinating. Wilson documents key events in 1776 that transformed our world forever. This is one of those books that actually changed the way I think, because it caused me to consider world events, moral standards, and worldviews through the lens of how the world metamorphosed in such a short period of time, less than 300 years ago. 

A Gentleman in Moscow by Amor Towles

This novel has it all – brilliant writing, engaging characters, unique plot, satisfying ending. Though it takes place during a dark time in Russian history, Towles’s ability to write in a light-hearted, captivating way means that the story doesn’t feel despairing. It’s redemptive, fun, educational, and clean (although a bit of innuendo). 

Movies:

Lars and the Real Girl This is one of those movies that has a weird premise, but stick with it and find yourself surprisingly moved. At its heart, it’s about a community loving a broken young man into wholeness. Kids will be bored by it, teenagers will think it’s too weird, but young adults (or actual adults) who give it a chance may love it – as I did. 

In fact, I was pleased to see that this movie made it onto Brett McCracken’s 50 Most Edifying Films of the 21st Century So Far. I’ve bookmarked this list – just in time for summer!

Articles:

The Evangelical Orphan Movement Grows Up by Jedd Medefind
Christianity Today may give you a paywall for this one, so I hope you can read it. Those of you who have read my blog for many years know that I started out naively supporting this movement until I saw the dark side for myself. I loved this summary of how the orphan movement started and where it is today, because it reflects my journey as well. 

Parenting the Stranger in My House by Wendy Kiyomi
I read this one a couple of years ago and recently came upon it again. It’s one of the best, most beautiful, most helpful things on adoption that I’ve encountered. If you have adopted children or love someone who has, please read this. 

“Considering adoption through the lens of hospitality anticipates a real encounter with suffering and offers a means of accounting for it. The primary movement of adoption is not away from brokenness but toward it; adoptive parents give it room at the very heart of their homes. Practitioners of biblical hospitality expect to suffer because they continually lay their lives down “in little pieces and small acts of sacrificial love and service,” writes Pohl. This costly calling is compassion, literally “co-suffering,” in which parents begin to bear not only their children’s old pain but also the pain that results from a new configuration of vulnerable, fallen individuals.”

Snapchat is Harming Children at an Industrial Scale by Jonathan Haidt and Zach Rausch
A must-read for every parent. 

The Prosperity Gospel We Sometimes All Believe In by Tim Challies
“There is a version of the prosperity gospel that we can all believe in and it goes something like this: “God, I gave my life to you, and in exchange I expect you to make my life easy. I may not need riches or opulence, perfect health or abundant wealth, but I would like ease. And if you take that ease from me, I may just assume that your feelings for me have altered or your love for me has waned. I may even regret following you. Please, just keep my life easy.”

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Worth Your Time (October 2024)

I haven’t been consistent in posting these, and it’s been a few months since I’ve done one. But here are a few recommendations for you!

Articles:

The Meaning of ‘Weird’ by Jake Meador

If the other side of the political spectrum seems “weird” to you, this article helps to explain how both sides interpret the meaning of that word differently. I once wrote, “People act in a way that makes sense to them. Find out why it makes sense.” Read this. 

Confessions of a Loner by Sophia Lee. I hope you can access this piece–such a poignant exploration of the loss of community and how to find it. I resonated with much of what she wrote. 

The Dutiful Introvert by Tim Challies “A dutiful introvert is one who….will not allow his personality to excuse any failure to fulfill the opportunities God presents to him.”   

Emptying the Nest in Hope, Not Fear by Gretchen Ronnevik, who is rapidly becoming my favorite parenting writer.

“After launching two of our six kids into adulthood, I’ve been astounded at the things other adult Christians have said to my children as they left our house to pursue the vocations God had prepared for them.  There’s a consistent theme of fear and discouragement: If you go to that college or move to this place or aren’t super careful, you’ll lose your faith.

These statements come from a place of genuine and justified concern. Many young Christians go to college and never return to church. We’ve all heard of a young person who’s moved out of the house, begun dating an unbeliever, and rejected their faith to live a different life. We know the data. We know the stories. And we are filled with fear. So we impress that fear on our children, urging them to draw their apologetic swords. But however good the intent, these warnings communicated something more to my kids: Have fear, not hope. Your faith is delicate. It’s fragile. It’s glass. At any moment, it could shatter forever. Talking with my kids, I found I had to push back on that implicit teaching—because it pushed them toward a false and lesser understanding of God, his mission for each of them, and his role in preserving their faith.”

Movies

The Map of Tiny Perfect Things on Amazon video. Grace and I watched this movie recently and found ourselves surprisingly moved by it. It starts out seeming to be a teen version of Groundhog Day, but ends with a meaningful twist that had both of us crying happy tears. Great movie for older teens. 

The Pod Generation. I watched this on the plane to Tanzania but looks like it’s available on Hulu. It’s a super thought-provoking movie on what it means to be human and turns out to be (probably unintentionally) quite pro-life. I found this so ironic since the female lead (Emilia Clarke) also stars in Me Before You, which is the most (deceptively) pro-death film I’ve seen. I don’t think there’s anything objectionable in this one, but since I watched it on a Muslim airline, I could have seen an edited version. This movie would be another great discussion starter for older teens. 

Books: 

God of All Things: Rediscovering the Sacred in an Everyday World by Andrew Wilson

I love how this delightful, fascinating book helped me to see God in all sorts of ordinary things. 

The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness by Jonathan Haidt

I may write more about this one at some point, but for now I’ll just say that this is a must-read for everyone who interacts with children, which is, probably, just about everyone. 

The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver. I wrote about this one here. If you’ve never read it and you are looking for a riveting but also thought-provoking novel, you’ll want to pick this one up. 

The Waiting: The True Story of a Lost Child, a Lifetime of Longing, and a Miracle for a Mother Who Never Gave Up by Cathy LaGrow

The subtitle tells it all–and doesn’t disappoint. If you want a heartbreaking but redemptive, extraordinary story, this one is for you.

Seeing Myself in The Poisonwood Bible

Poisonwood Bible

I knew that The Poisonwood Bible was a best-selling novel about a missionary family to Africa, so why did it take me 25 years to finally read it? Honestly, I think I was scared of it. I knew that it painted an ugly picture of missionaries, and I feared it would make me question my calling. 

Well, that’s a stupid reason to avoid reading a book, so when I read it this summer, I regretted waiting so long. I was instantly captivated. Barbara Kingsolver weaves a riveting story of the fictional Nathan Price and his family into the horrifying history of Congo in the 1960’s. Like many other reviewers, I loved the first two-thirds of the book and was bored by the last third (which is essentially an extended epilogue) – but the point is, I still loved it. I would argue that it should be required reading for any cross-cultural worker.

Yes, Nathan Price is a terrible missionary. On his first night in the village, when his hosts welcome him with a feast and dancing, the first words out of his mouth are raging criticism for their lack of clothing. It all goes downhill from there. For example, he can’t understand why no one wants to be baptized in the river until someone reveals that the villagers assume he wants to feed them to the crocodiles. 

Nathan speaks very little of the local language, and even his feeble attempts are misinterpreted:

“TATA JESUS IS BÄNGALA!” declares the Reverend every Sunday at the end of his sermon. More and more, mistrusting his interpreters, he tries to speak in Kikongo. He throws back his head and shouts these words to the sky, while his lambs sit scratching themselves in wonder. Bangala means something precious and dear. But the way he pronounces it, it means the poisonwood tree. Praise the Lord, hallelujah, my friends! for Jesus will make you itch like nobody’s business.”

He asks no questions. He makes no attempts to understand. He is never willing to admit he is wrong. He is never willing to acknowledge that the villagers could be right. He thinks he is defending God’s reputation. He refuses to see that his pride and foolishness are actually doing the opposite.

I’ve never met a missionary this bad, though certainly, any honest, self-reflecting missionary winces to realize that they see a little of themselves in Nathan Price.

But is this just about missionaries? 

Isn’t every Christian living in a culture that is, in a sense, foreign? 

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