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Making Merry

Caleb is Grace’s very best friend.  They are almost exactly the same age, and been friends their whole lives.  Josiah and Imani are also the same age, but they have just gotten to the point where they have stopped looking at each other in distain.  Not quite the same relationship as Grace and Caleb.

We love Caleb and Imani’s family, and they were in town last weekend, so we did some Christmas merriment with them. 

Last year at Christmas we spent a Sunday afternoon at a fancy hotel’s special buffet…and had so much fun that we did it again this year. 

We don’t normally eat this well.  🙂

Last year, the hotel had a jumper and clowns to entertain the kids.  This year, they had nada.  So the kids ran in the sprinklers instead.  Hopefully the hotel regrets not getting that jumper. 

The next day, we had our First Annual Gingerbread-Making Party.

This was Mommy’s first time making gingerbread houses from scratch.  So….ummm…yeah.

Emily (Caleb’s Mom) said that the houses reminded her of the village where they live.  As in, they are all falling down.  Well, at least our gingerbread houses were culturally appropriate.

Although I think Josiah’s simply collapsed under the weight of everything he put on it. 

Getting Into the Season

I love African rain.  There’s really nothing that beats that amazing smell in the air.

And I love the tropical sun when I’m on a speed boat in the middle of the Indian Ocean.

But other than that, I really miss having seasons.

It’s probably one of the things I miss the most while living in Tanzania.  And it always hits me the hardest at Christmastime. 

I really, really wish I could embrace this tropical Christmas thing.  And of course, the celebration of the Incarnation has nothing to do with the weather.  But that marvelous feel of Christmas?  Just doesn’t exist here.

The temperature these days is near 100 degrees.  With 96% humidity.  And it doesn’t get much better at night.  My entire body feels sticky.  The last thing I want anyone to do is to touch me. 

Kind of makes that Christmasy, blankets-and-hot-cocoa, cozy feeling a little impossible. 

I love Christmas music like the next person, but with all their talk of sleigh bells and winter wonderlands and open fires, it doesn’t really help my mood.  This really is the time of year I get most homesick.  Grandchildren separated from grandparents doesn’t help either.

But we try.  To feel Christmasy, that is.  And sometimes, you just have to laugh.

Last week, the secondary school held their annual Christmas program on a Thursday night.  The music was beautiful.  The music teachers outdid themselves. 

Paper snowflakes hung delicately over the stage.  And when they turned the overhead lights on, the flying termites came out in swarms.  It almost looked like snow.  Almost. 

Sweat dripped down our backs.  The power went out during one of the skits, and they had to just continue by yelling their lines really loud until someone could get the generator on. 

The students were told to wear white and black.  And since you can’t just head out to Walmart to pick up a white blouse, that meant that some of the “white and black” attire was rather interesting.

But they did all their own accompaniments.  I was so proud of them. 

And they all sang, really loud.  Even the 8th grade boys.  Which is kind of a Christmas miracle.

And everyone brought food, clothes, and toys that night, which was all then presented to the manager of a local orphanage by my friend Lauren.  That’s HOPAC’s true Christmas spirit.

The nice thing is, that all of this makes no difference to my kids.  And I know that’s true, because some of my best Christmas memories are the ones my family spent in Liberia when I was a kid.  So this week, we are having a family water balloon fight since we can’t have a snow ball fight.  And taking a bath with green and red ice cubes.  We’ll have a sleepover in the living room.  We’re having a Christmas Eve BBQ with our church.  I did try super hard to find a true “Tanzanian” Christmas tree this year, but the only “natural” one I found that was big enough cost $200.  I decided our plastic tree wasn’t so bad after all.

We can’t light candles because the fans will blow them out.  We don’t have a fireplace for our stockings.  We certainly won’t be getting cozy.  But we’re creating memories just the same.

And now I’m off to bake gingerbread, since tomorrow we have friends coming over for a gingerbread house party.  Except the molasses was too expensive, so I used date syrup instead.  So we’ll have a kind of middle-eastern flavored gingerbread.

Seems appropriate, don’t you think?

Kindergarten At Its Best

I don’t know if we’ll be in Tanzania another 12 years, but I know that if we are, Grace will graduate from HOPAC with a lot of the kids she is on the playground with now.

So I want to get to know these parents.  A couple of weeks ago was my first attempt.  I love the fact that I can invite these families to school for a birthday party for the kindergarten teacher, on a Saturday afternoon, and they will actually come. 

Such a great day.  When you’ve got families with as diverse backgrounds as those at HOPAC, you know you’re going to have great conversations. 

(That’s Grace’s classroom in the background.)

The kids brought their bikes and careened around the campus, and us moms got to know each other. 

Later that week, the kids got the surprise of their life.  This class loves to dance (and I love that their teacher encourages them to dance), and one of their favorite songs to dance to is by a Kenyan Christian rap star. 

So you can imagine their excitement when Bupe himself jumped into their dance party one day. 

I’d say those are some pretty lucky kindergarteners.

Becoming a Family of Five

After such a crazy September, I am thankful that October gave us some much-needed family time.  It was a slower month, and Gil had a week off for mid-term break.  We didn’t go anywhere, made no plans, and really hardly saw anyone but ourselves that week.  It was really, really good for us. 

When you work with teenagers, you have the added advantage of owning things like laser lights, glow sticks, and strobe lights.  (We also have a smoke machine, but didn’t bring that out on this particular night).  Makes for some pretty spectacular family dance parties.  I’m glad all you can see is the lights in this picture….

Within a three mile radius are two (and only) water parks in Tanzania.  Our favorite is Water World because the water there is usually blue, instead of…..yeah.  It costs approximately $4.00 per adult and $3.50 per child.  Can’t beat that.  Except I do get a little nervous that something might collapse under us someday….

Oh Yes he IS trying to dunk her. 

Josiah can hold his little 28 pound body in a perfect headstand for over 10 seconds.  Even when he is not in the water. 

My sweetie got her training wheels off during mid-term break.  Rite of passage.  Growing up.

Doing her flips on the trampoline at “Fantasyland.” 

Family painting day.  This was Grace’s request.  It’s actually her request a lot of days; she just doesn’t usually get it. 

Stick with gymnastics, kid.  I don’t think you have a future in art. 

Bibi

So thankful

That I have a Mom who is also my friend and example

And that my kids have such a devoted Bibi who brings them tempera paint 10,000 miles across the ocean

And that we had such a wonderful two weeks together.

And that even though we all shed tears this morning as we said good-bye,

that the tears were just confirmation

Of all of the above.

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