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Ages 5 and 3

Grace just took her kindergarten assessment test, loved it, and was very disappointed that she still has six more months to wait.  She is starting to read and SO ready to start school.

Yeah, yeah, yeah…I know he’s cute.  It’s a good thing, too, so that he will live to see four years old.  He ain’t so cute when at lunch and told to eat one carrot stick (which he happens to like) and he screams bloody murder at me, “YOU ARE NOT MY FRIEND; I AM NOT GOING TO PLAY WITH YOU!” (which is his ultimate insult—and duly disciplined as such)….or when he hurtles a toy across the room when told to remove his socks (which is his ultimate punishment) because he has hit his sister.  (But it is pretty cute when he then tells me the rest of the day, “My feet are cold; I need my socks” and its 90 degrees outside.)

BOTH tell me they are VERY ready for their little sister to join us!

Miaka Mitano (Five Years)

We celebrated Grace’s fifth birthday at Lushoto.  It was sort of a “come one-come all” sort of deal, which meant that I didn’t know half the kids’ names who were there….and that meant everyone got a really small slice of cake.  Next year, I’ll remember to make two cakes.  (Since we already made our booking for next year!) 

I’m excited about Five.  I was an elementary school teacher in my other life, and I taught kindergarten for a couple of years.  I know Five.  Grace is very excited about it too.  I think she was disappointed, though, that she didn’t get to start kindergarten or lose her teeth or ride her bike without training wheels the very next day, since she knows all those things come with Five.

Everybody Say “Awwwwww…..”

We had always talked about breeding our Jack Russell, so now, finally, 5 years later, we finally got around to it. 

I wondered often what was going through Minnie’s mind through this whole thing.  I mean, she’s never seen a birth, never seen puppies, and one day she gets this enormous stomach that is practically touching the ground, and then puppies start appearing.  “It all started when that strange dog showed up,” she wonders to herself.  Minnie did give us some very bewildered looks those first few days.  “How did this happen?”  Yet, of course, due to our marvelous Creator, the dog (who has never seen a birth or had anyone teach her) knows exactly what to do.  Maybe this isn’t very amazing to many people but I’ve thought it’s all been pretty darn cool. 

And of course, there isn’t anything much cuter than kids and puppies. 

Don’t bother asking for one.  They were spoken for before they were born.  Jack Russells like to catch rats and bark at strangers, so they are quite popular dogs around here. 

Three more weeks till they go to their new homes.  I will miss those little faces, but I will not miss all the pee. 

Adventures in Pre-School, Take 2

So we’re trying pre-school again.

Attempt one was here.  We didn’t stick with that.  I wasn’t up to driving 80 minutes a day to give Grace four hours of sitting on a bench.  Even though the teacher was a sweetie.

But I have been nagging myself about Swahili for Grace.  This is her last year before kindergarten.  If she’s going to learn it, it’s got to be this year.  And it’s just not happening.  The neighbor kids come over, but they end up just speaking the few English words they know.  My Swahili friends who also speak English (which is most of the people in our community) speak English to the kids, despite my attempts to get them to do otherwise.  I’ve tried so hard to get our house worker and gardener (who is great with the kids) to be intentional about working on Swahili with them.  But I think they just don’t understand how language develops, so it just isn’t happening.  I even resorted to hiring a Swahili tutor during the summer to work with them.  That was great–just pretty expensive.

Sigh.  I so much want my kids to learn it.  But we live in a bi-lingual city, and are working at a school that’s all in English.  And like I said in my previous pre-school post, any school that has more than a bench and a chalkboard is in English.

But we’re trying again.  A friend told me about a new pre-school that’s less than 2 miles from our house.  It is in English (of course), but it’s not catering to the ex-patriot population.  It’s got all Tanzanian teachers and all Tanzanian kids. 

So I went and observed one day.  Technically it is an English pre-school.  Any upper-class Tanzanian family who could afford this school (about $100 per month) would want their kids to learn English.  But all the kids that go there don’t speak it yet.  So I listened.  All the kids speak to each other in Swahili.  The teachers speak to each other in Swahili.  When they teach, it’s in English.  But other than that, it’s Swahili, or a combination of both. 

We’re trying it.  I signed her up for three days a week, for three months, and we’ll see how it goes. 

I don’t really expect her to learn much in the reading-and-writing category.  They do teach it, but they still resort to the classic bench-and-chalkboard Tanzanian method which just isn’t very effective with four-year-olds.  However, they only do that about 30 minutes a day–and then they sing and play and listen to music.  They also eat ugali and beans and drink uji–all very Tanzanian and not really present in our house.  So I like that part–I want Grace to feel comfortable eating and acting Tanzanian.

And she totally loves it.  It’s been two weeks, and she’s tickled pink (just like those beautiful walls) that she finally gets to go to school. 

Time will tell if it really helps her learn Swahili. The teachers promised me they would work on it with her. But one thing is for sure: She may not learn Swahili, but she will learn to speak English with a Tanzanian accent. This part cracks me up.

So she comes home the other day and says, “Harriet was biting kids today.” But she says Harriet with a Tanzanian accent. “Harriet?” I say, very American-like. “No, Mommy, Harriet,” with that great accent. Love it, love it!

She sings, “Lo, lo, lo your boat,” and “Ren, ren, go away, come agen anoter day, leetle chidren want to play futball and netball….”

Grace with her “teachas”

Some Things I Bet You Didn’t Know

Grace:  Mommy, when we see Bibi and Babu again, can they take us to South America?  But it’s far away.  We could go on a blimp.  But only if there are no dogs.  And catfish.

Grace:  Mommy, all of the princesses are vanilla.  Except for Jasmine and Tiana.  They are chocolate.

Mommy:  Josiah, don’t bite your fingernails.

Josiah:  But I am chocolate.

Grace:  When you die, you go to heaven.  Except if you want to go up to the sky, you can also use pixie dust.

Grace:  When Josiah turns three, he will be OUT of football and INto dolls.

Grace to Josiah:  Let’s pretend that I am your big sister and you are my little brother.

Grace to Mommy:  When we get a new little brother, let’s name him Spartacus.

Grace to Daddy after our beach trip:  When you get sunburned, you will look like us [Grace and Josiah]!

Josiah to our very pregnant friend:  Your tummy looks like mine!

Grace to Mommy:  Look!  Shirley Temple has tattoos just like Annie!!!  [that would be…tap shoes]

Mommy:  Josiah, why are you so cute?

Josiah:  Because I am a pokey thing.

Mommy:  What?  You are cute because you are a pokey thing?  What does that mean?

Grace:  I know!  It means he is a cactus.  Right, Josiah?

Josiah:  Yeah!

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