Box 70027

In all my eight years living in Tanzania, I have never once checked the mail.

We use HOPAC’s mailing address:  P.O. Box 70027, Dar es Salaam, Tanzania.  The box is way downtown and is checked by a staff member once a week or so, and all the mail brought to school.

I have written that address on countless applications, letters, and forms.  But I had never actually seen the mailbox. 

Until yesterday.

Last week, after hounding the social worker with my phone calls and texts, she finally told me that she had mailed our approval letter.  I didn’t totally believe her, but was still optimistic.  When we returned from the Morogoro orphanage trip on Wednesday, I rushed to the staff room to check our cubby holes.  Magazines.  No letter. 

Richard is the guy who checks Box 70027 these days.  On Friday, I hounded him.  “Will you pleeeeease check the mail today?”  I begged.  Spring break was starting; we were leaving the country to visit Kenya, and I didn’t want to wait another week and a half to know if our letter had come.  “I’ll try,” he told me.

At 6:00 that evening, we were at school for an event and Richard drove up.  “I didn’t make it,” he told me.  “Traffic was too bad.”  And how could I blame him when he got back so late?

But I was determined.  “Is there any way I could get the mailbox key and check it myself?”  So we went into the office and he helped me hunt for the spare key.  Eureka.

I would have driven down the very next day, but I knew it would take me four hours round trip.  So I decided I could wait one more day, because we were going to the airport for our trip to Kenya, and could stop at the post office on the way.

So we did.  And I found Box 70027 for the first time.  Sifted through the crammed mailbox and found the glorious sight of a slim brown envelope with my name on it.

It was there!  Oh happy day!

We’ve been approved!  It’s there, in writing…finally, after all these months.

However, there was a big surprise.  Throughout this whole past year, our social worker has insisted that we could not choose the child.  We could give specifications, and even choose the orphanage, but we could not choose the child.  We were totally fine with that.  In fact, we preferred it.

So you can imagine our surprise when we found that the letter stated that we were to have a girl, around 2 years old, from Forever Angels Orphanage in Mwanza.  But we are to choose. 

We will make the decision this week, based on pictures and prayer alone.  We’ll then be about a month away from bringing her home.  Praise God with us, and then pray!

God is Gracious

Stella got her stitches out today, and was discharged to go home.  So we went over to pay the final bill and take William and Stella home. 

Their baby’s name is Janet, and she is one week old today.  Baby and Mama are both doing great, and exceedingly beautiful.  Enjoy!

About a dozen different people/families gave money to make sure Stella got good medical care, and I’m sure hundreds of people prayed.  William and Stella have told me repeatedly to thank everyone who stood beside them through this.  But don’t stop praying!  1 in 9 children in Tanzania don’t make it to their 5th birthday. 

Janet M. is a very good friend of William and Stella’s whom William has known for over 10 (15?) years.  She and her husband were deeply involved in William’s life and ministry.  If she had been in Tanzania this year, I know she would have been the one making sure Stella got good medical care.  It’s a perfect name for their baby. 

Then I looked up the meaning of ‘Janet’:  God is Gracious.

Definitely perfect.

Orphans and Former Orphans

Service Emphasis Week (SEW) has got to be one of the very best things about HOPAC.  This year secondary students spread out all over Tanzania on 17 different teams…to build water filters, run kids’ camps, teach English, serve disabled people, teach computer classes…and the list goes on. 

Gil led the team that went to Agape Children’s Village in Morogoro, a city about 3 hours from here.  So the kids and I joined him, and we took 12 HOPAC students to serve the 28 kids there for 5 days. 

Love these trips.  The students step up.  In leadership.  In love.  In service.  The kids shower their adoration on these teenagers who are willing to give of themselves to them.  It’s beautiful to watch.

Visiting orphanages is not a new thing for me.  But visiting them with my two children, who were once orphans, was quite a profound experience.  In each child’s face, I saw the faces of my children.  Neither of my children came from this orphanage, but if they had not been adopted, they would have grown up much the same way.

I often imagined Grace there, as a resident, not a visitor.   Her head shaved, instead of full of braids and beads.  Eating ugali with her hands instead of a spoon.  Her eyes with a yellow tinge from malnutrition or too many bouts of malaria.  Speaking only Swahili.  Helping to wash her clothes by hand, making her little bed in the morning, and putting away her meager possessions. 

Would she still be as full of life?  As confident as she is now?  As gregarious?  Would she love to laugh as much as she does in our family?  How different would she be without a mama, her Daddy, her brother?  How would her mind be different without the plethora of experiences she has had…if her whole life revolved around three buildings and a nearby school?  

She would be such a different person that I don’t know if I would recognize her.  Yet that person could have been, if not for the sovereign hand of God in her life.  And millions of children in Tanzania are living that life.  The differences are stark. 

And yet….what would I be like, had I not been adopted into His family?

Weeping May Remain for a Night, But Rejoicing Comes in the Morning

There she is.  Beautiful, beautiful sight.  Born around 11:30 this morning, 2.6 kg.  I took this picture about two hours after she was born.  No epidurals at this hospital, so Stella was put completely under.  When I saw her, she was still too groggy to really stay awake or even hold her baby.  Only awoke enough to say “Asante” when Dr. Carolyn and I gave her our congratulations, both of us in tears. 

 5:30 pm update:

(by the way, no name yet.  In Tanzanian culture that can come days or even weeks later.)

Almost

C-Section Scheduled for Tomorrow (Saturday)

Ultrasound revealed baby is 2.9 kg/6.4 pounds, 35 gestational weeks.

Pray!  More news to come soon!

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