July 21, 2009.
The judge showed up. The social worker showed up. We and our lawyer showed up (though that was never in doubt!).
The judge was intimidating. And nit-picky. And certainly not enjoying herself. A couple times I thought she was going to make us reschedule the whole thing (again) over some tiny detail.
When it finally came time for her to address us, she sternly asked, “Do you know the meaning of adoption? Do you understand that even if you get pregnant, you can’t give him back? That even if you leave Tanzania, you can’t give him back?”
Uh, yeah. I think we get it. Give him back? Over my dead body.
But at the end she announced she would issue the adoption order, and that’s all we wanted to hear!
(Afterwards I asked our lawyer if there are any judges that actually take joy in issuing adoptions, and she said that yes, there are some that even get teary. That’s good to know. I mean, you would think that after sentencing prisoners and granting divorces and nasty stuff like that all day, a judge would be thrilled to do an adoption.)
So I am relieved. And praising God for His timing and provision and mostly for my amazing, precious, adorable little boy who lights up my life every day.
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And now I wish I could write more. I have all these posts rattling around in my head, about camp and the Hillside team and the orphanage trip and our move and our new house and brave little Ryan, a HOPAC kid who got third degree burns on his legs a few weeks ago, and the incredible spiritual journey of his family.
But I don’t have time because my house is in choas from the move. And we don’t have internet there yet, so I have to wait until I can steal time away to come to school to post.
But soon. I’ll be back soon.
Sammye & Tumaini
Congratulations!!!!! I am so very happy for you all, and hope to meet Josiah either during your home assignment or on a trip to TZ.
Anonymous
awww congrats again guys!
gutmanfam
We are praising God with you!!! Can't wait to see you all this fall!
jibberish
Absolutely wonderful!!!
Melodie Monberg
Congratulations…these little guys keep us praying and gaining more faith every day don't they?
Tundra Mom
I am so happy for you, I am crying again. I cried last night when I got your email. So happy for you to have it all done! Love, Becca
The Malmgaard Family
Yay! That's awesome! Congrats guys!
Jayme Solomon
Yeah! So happy for you guys! Praising God that everyone showed up. 🙂