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Exam Time

HOPAC students work very, very hard. The secondary school uses a curriculum called IGCSE, which comes from Britain. It is much more intense than any curriculum I have seen. For example, in 8th, 9th, and 10th grade, all students take Physics, Chemistry, and Biology. All three subjects all three years. Basically, by the time our students have finished 10th grade, they’ve completed an American high school education (with maybe the exception of a government class or another English class). The classes they take in 11th and 12th grade are equivalent of American AP classes–college level. Whenever we have students staying with us and I see the homework they are doing, I am amazed.

At the end of 10th, 11th, and 12th grade, the students take IGCSE exams. The 10th graders take these exams over the course of an entire month. Almost 25 exams total–each an hour or two long–2 or 3 exams for each subject. It’s a big deal. They work really hard and get really nervous. But they always do great. Every year, the 10th grade scores improve. Above is the picture of last year’s 10th grade class with their IGCSE results. I taught that class in 5th and 6th grade…so I was especially proud of them!

Not Exactly a Chinese Church, But….

Grace and I were driving into town the other day, and we passed a Chinese food restaurant. She started hollering, “Church, Mommy, church!”

And she was right. Our church meets in a Chinese food restaurant. Sometimes you can smell lunch cooking as the sermon finishes up…makes it hard to concentrate.


We worship on Sundays with one of the international churches in the city. For a number of reasons, we struggled and wrestled over which Body we should join. How do we get involved with a church when our primary ministry is HOPAC? And when we are already receiving fellowship, leadership, and encouragement during our weekly meetings with our mission team? Do we choose a Swahili church or an English church? Do we choose a church where we agree with the doctrine 100% or a church where we can have the greatest impact?

The answers have never been as clear cut for us as they were in the States. And we’ve never felt totally settled with our answers. But the largest concentration of HOPAC families attend this church. I teach Sunday School and Gil is often given the opportunity to preach. So for now, it has been the most strategic group for us to be a part of.

Anyway. I do think it’s amusing that Grace associates church with a Chinese food restaurant. But I guess that’s better than her growing up with the assumption that a church must have pews and stained glass.

She’s Already Brainwashed

It’s her favorite outfit. Whenever she gets to choose what to wear, that’s what she chooses. And whenever she sees the logo on the back of a bus or on someone’s shirt, she starts chanting, “Manchester, Manchester!”

And who can blame her? Even my husband, who had arthoscopic knee surgery on Tuesday, managed to get himself over to the nearest hotel to watch the Final Champion’s League game. AND THEY WON.

All of you Americans probably haven’t a clue as to what I am talking about. Which only means you are…well, American…since the rest of world would never consider “football” to be played with a brown oblong ball.

Ah…the things I’ve learned since living in Africa.

A Happy Sight

You know you have a lot of youth in your house when…..


….there are a lot of shoes by the front door.

She Needs a Sibling, Doesn’t She?

No, that is not my baby with Grace. (Silly people! That baby doesn’t look anything like me!) That is Baby Amy, Esta’s daughter, whom she has been bringing to work with her. Grace is enchanted by Baby Amy and smothers her with kisses every day.

But I can’t wait for the day when there are two children in my family pictures (or three…or four…) And the last few days have been discouraging in that department.

Once again, we are waiting…and waiting…for our adoption of a baby boy. I have been waiting for a month now for the regional social worker to write a letter to International Social Services. Every time I call her she tells me, “Next week.” That’s happened for about 5 weeks now. I contacted our lawyer for advice today, and she said that sadly, the social welfare office seems totally unmotivated to help anyone with adoptions right now. One family has already been waiting 18 months to get approved–which is the longest anyone has waited so far.

This was discouraging for me, since I was hoping that we’d have our baby boy this summer. I am not giving up….last week I brought cookies to the social worker, and she’ll be back in the office next Wednesday so Grace and I will bring her more cookies. But, today I also started making some serious inquiries into international adoption from other countries. Gil and I have talked about this for a long time, and were going to wait until after we got our boy, but decided that considering the circumstances we should start now.

That is daunting too. The process is so long…so involved…so expensive…and even more so for a family trying to adopt internationally who is not living in the U.S. So many orphans in the world…and it’s so hard to bring them home.

But…I take a deep breath…and here I go.

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